Despite being famous and busy, Jennifer Lopez still tries to make time to take care of and teach her children.
Not only is one of the famous female singers, actresses, dancers and designers, Jennifer Lopez is also known by fans as the mother of twins Max and Emme. She has her own strict but loving parenting methods.
1. Set a lot of rules
Although she always loves her children, Jennifer Lopez still sets extremely strict rules, forcing them to follow. She is famous for controlling the children almost anytime, anywhere, even when away from home due to busy schedules, Jennifer also has to hire a babysitter to supervise the twins. At that time, she would call home every day to check on the status of her children.
Jennifer Lopez once revealed in an interview, one of the reasons she sets so many rules with her children is because she used to live in a strict upbringing environment.
“My mother taught her children to be very strict. My sister and I were not allowed to drink or smoke, were not allowed to roam the streets with other children. We had to learn to be gentle, gentle. I I’m happy to be raised like that.”
Accordingly, the rule that Jennifer set for Max and Emme is not to use the Ipad or play games or anything like that during the week, because it’s school time. In addition, children have to do well in school and then they can play iPad on Saturdays and Sundays. That was the rule she set up so that the twins could focus on their studies.
However, in order not to let the children experience too much pressure with her mother’s control, on weekends, Lopez still spends 2 full days with her children to go out and relax.
2. Teach your child the importance of loving yourself
On the TV show The Ellen Show , Jennifer confided: “I teach my children small but important things. For example, you need to think positive because thoughts make life. You deserve to be treated well and don’t. I’m a victim of anyone. What I teach helps my children have healthy friendships and is useful for their love life later on.”
Jennifer Lopez with her two children on the TV show The Ellen Show.
Raising kids isn’t always easy, so she emphasizes the importance of loving yourself and feeling at peace before entering a new relationship.
“Everyone has to grow up and children will gradually grow up. You can’t hold your child forever and comfort that everything will be okay. You need to go out into the world, take charge of your life and your business. parents are trying to catch up with that maturity”; “It is a child’s journey and also a new journey for parents. Watching children grow up is a joy for me”- Lopez shared .
3. Spending big on two children’s birthday party
As one of the celebrities who owns a huge fortune, it is no wonder that Lopez invests a lot in her children. At the 10th birthday party for twins Max and Emme, she organized a very grand birthday party with the participation of 30 guests, lasting for 4 hours.
There is information that has been revealed, the cost for the party is up to 7,500 USD (more than 170 million VND), giving 5,500 USD (more than 125 million VND) to express thanks to the staff.
Jennifer always feels that the happiness of her children is the number 1 goal in her life.
In an interview, Jennifer once said touchingly: “[…] These two angels entered my world and changed my life forever… You have healed my soul. and make me feel like I’m getting younger and younger. You have taught me how to love and how to live like I never imagined before. I will forever love these beautiful faces.”
4. Keep the clothes you wear when you give birth in the closet
As a celebrity and active in many fields, Jennifer Lopez is quite busy with her schedules. Of course that will inevitably be stressful times and the twins Max and Emme are the place where she can find balance in life and career.
Twins Max and Emme.
Whenever I talk about my children, Lopez is always beaming: “Thanks to my children, now I feel like I can do anything… Before, I was just passing through life. Now I’m new. really live and appreciate things differently.”
She even revealed that she still kept in the closet the shirt she used to wear when she went to the hospital to give birth: “At that time, during the blizzard, I wore a fur coat and went to the delivery room, the only shirt It fits my body perfectly. Later, every time I look at the shirt, I think of the day my two children were born.”
